I was asked this week if we "get a girl" if we would stop. I just told the person, "We don't use birth control.....and we want 4 kids".......
It is hard to get into the whole issue with people.
Truth is, we don't believe in ANY form of chemical birth control. We believe it can cause a fertilized egg not to attach (rare, but it happens) and in our opinion, that is abortion. We also do not plan on ever getting my tubes tied or Charlie getting a vasectomy.
So....we are left with trusting God to limit our family. This would not be much of an issue except I am only SUPPOSED to have 4 C-sections.
We will have to revisit what we will do and not do after my 4th C-section. If my scars look good, I will most likely have a 5th if it happens. We may choose to use NFP at that time. I don't know.
If my scars look dangerous, We will have to use barrier methods. We MAY consider surgery if it looks like my life is in danger..but only at that point.
If I had not had to have C-sections this would be a non-issue. We would have kids until I went through menopause. Unfortunately, that is not an option.